MISSING IN ACTION

Dear all, so sorry that i have been missing for days
no updates and no visiting since last week.

I have been coughing badly and madly for 1 week plus already
and seems no improvement even after taking medication.

Not to worry though, Doc say its not swine but rather my
serious coughing has been triggered by sinus problem.
(read about it from makeyouheal's blog)

Seems that the coughing is triggered as mucus is backdripped
from the nose into the throat.

And i have delayed visiting the docter as i though its nothing serious
until i cannot sleep at night and practically choking and
coughing my lungs out every other min.

For all those who have sinus problem and backdripping symtopms
please do see a docter if you start having sore throat and bad cough!

Seriously this coughing is driving me mad.
I have not been able to sleep at night even though the medicine is
supposed to be drowsy~Arghh....

Thanks to all who have visited
I will be visiting you people back SOON!

IN A STATE OF "CONCUSSION"'

Last night, practically was a sleepless night

I keep waking up cause i was coughing so badly.

so naturally this morning i was very tired

that i couldnt even open my eye when Emma woke me up at 5am

I knew he was telling something about feeding the fishes and dogs

but... im really in a state of 'concussion' that i didnt know

what the hell he was blabbing about.

So when he left for work, I just kinda of dozed back into a deep slumber.

and 'did' what i was told when i woke up hrs later.

Its was only now did i realised how seriously 'concussed' i was at 5am

I vividly remembered he said

"Feed the fishes before you leave, I have feed the boys aka Cyrus & Eto"

But in actual fact, he said

"Feed the boys ... I have feeded the fishes"

Wah lao... totally opposite.

So this morning, all the fishes including the fries got

double servings of breakfast.

While Cyrus and Eto went without breakfast.

Somemore this morning, Cyrus never 'say' he wants to eat!

He just went back to sleep when i ask him if daddy has bring him down.

(literally means he had went down earlier.)

usually Cyrus is very expressive and vocal

He let you know , if he wants to go pee/poo or eat!

Wah liew, Im a bad mommy....

both of them must be sooo hungry

Count down to another 3.5 hrs before I can knock off

and rush home to feed them

REPUTATION OF DURIAN

Just in case, anyone here doesnt know what a Durian is
and how it look likes.

Here it is.... KING OF THE FRUIT


This has always been my favourite fruit since im young.
I have since learned to 'peel' the fruit so i dont have to wait for my dad.
That is how I am crazy about durians that I couldnt even wait!


Long time ago, we have known alot of non-asians couldnt accept
Durian as they label the aroma we so loved as PUNGENT
But heck with it, since we are so in loved...its their losses.

It only until today after watching a show on discovery channel
That i realised how the non-asian see Durian.

It has such a bad reputation

Its listed on the list of TABOO food in the world.
Having said that, pungent is the nicest word used to describe it.

It listed beside all the world's Bizzare food.

How Strange!! Does it really SMELLS SO BAD??
They have describe smell of durians

AS LIKE
:
:
:
Rotting animal carcass
overripe cheese
milk that has gone bad
a smelly public toilet
dead fish
dung
genital area


My, I have never knew durian smelled this BAD..
and im was laughing mad when i heard durian is associated with genital
How Bizzare!!

MUSIC TO MY EARS

Since last week and while in KL
I have been hearing songs from Olivia Ong and Joanna Wong

I really like some of the jazz from them
and these gals do have wonderful voices.

Luckily i can find them online and no need to buy the CD
as i only like a few songs.

I Hope you guys/gals enjoy the songs on my player :)

Cheers!

HUNGRY GAYS...

Before I post out the pictures from KL..
I think i should just blog about this "admirer" of my hubby.

Just last two weeks, Wick ask me if im worried about Emma
turning gay since he is working in a Gym.

Hmm, seriously im not as im not gonna bother myself with stuffs like that
if its meant to be then it will be..

Haha, and i was telling Wick and Ms ChorLor about this
admirer of Emma.
He is one of the Potential client, and its pretty obvious he is GAY.

Okay we have nothing against Gay but this fellow just make me Laugh.
Im so amused by his acts..

1st he is always telling Emma "How cute he is"
and ocassionally sending flirting SMS like... "Hey i like ur new hair cut.. its so Cute"
or "can we mit out for dinner, we can be friends right?"
and many more which i cant remembered.
Hmm, its alittle funny for guy to be texting such things to another guy..

when i 1st saw the sms.. I even ask Emma
if this the GF outside.. u know
save the Tel contacts under a Male client name and
in fact its a female!

To a certain extend.. he was being a bit extreme.. extremely desperate
Who in the right mind will ask a trainer out to discuss training package
over dinner... and end up footing the bill and sending the trainer home.
It should be the trainer footing the bill right??
Its just the same as meeting ur Insurance agent and buying him lunch
and also buying a policy...

Then nevermind.. so on the pretext of discussing package
He was actually like having a flirting session... but he did commit to purchase
well the payment never come in thou...

Wahaha... I knew that will happen! Wait till he say to mit for payment as the next excuse for meet-up!

Chor Lor agreed that its Hungry Gays like this that spoilts the reputation
of the GLBT community. Which i think so too..

Nevermind.. 2 days ago while we are chilling at the cafe in KL
Emma show us this SMS... wahaha

Emma finally reply him after receiving a few sms
if Emma did not reply, he will ask if Emma have forgotten him

Lol, he is telling Emma he MISSED HIM wor
i think very soon hor.. he sure will sms for dinner again!

Oh my... i think he is really testing water , trying to flirt
as he know Emma is married.

LOL.... if i didnt mentioned right from the start that sender is a MALE
would you all have assumed that sender is a female?

IM BACK!

Today the kissing game has resumed.
Im tired from just the blogwalking.
Hopefully I have time to edit all the pictures i took in KL
and post them up ...

A VERY BIG THANK YOU
to all those who have visited my blog for the past two days
even thou there is no updates :)

IMPORTANT NOTICE FOR MY BLOGGER GANG

Happy Labour Day to all.

So sorry gang... our kissing and smiling game will be
on 'PAUSE' MODE for the next 2-3 days
as i will be away.

Till then..... wait for me to come back Smooch all of you

WHAT THE HELL AM I DOING?

For the past few months, i been asking myself this..
What the hell have i been doing....
literally i been dragging myself out of bed every morning, and drag myself to work ...

Especially since i wasnt feeling too well since last month.
I feel so ... hmmm so ..... I really dont know.

I just seems to realise all of a sudden.
I have lost my direction in Life.
I have lost the focus which im suppose to have.
I have lost all motivation and desire.

I just wake up being blur every morning, and go to bed even blurr
I no longer knows what im doing... just passing each day by each day
I hate myself in this state.. which i seriously cannot comprehend what went wrong?!
I even start to question myself.. why am i doing the same thing day in day out..

So tired... I just want to rest.
Not a short holiday.... it just I wan to really NUAR at home doing nothing for a
while.
Maybe I feel get better from my IBS, which is triggered by stress
maybe i would feel more refreshed and focus, like what Ying suggest.
Maybe i should just not work and stay at home... but what am i doing to do at home?


Or am I getting OLD... TOO OLD
that i start to forget things... at an alarming speed
Like what Wick has suggested, get a voice recorder...
but seriously.. i think i would have forgotten to make a voice recording
or lost the recorder.

Luckily my boss is kind enough, ask me to take a long leave to rest and take care
of my health.

But boss.. (Im know you are reading this)
5 days of offdays including weekend is consider LONG LEAVE meh??
I thought LONG LEAVE is minimum 2 weeks off??
hmm ..................maybe i should have get dengue fever or chicken pox
MC for 2 weeks!

I seriously need some motivation and directions in LIFE
Sometimes i just wished i can disappear for a while...

Am I the only 1 that is feeling this??? Or everyone is the same.. ? which i doubt so.

Ignore me if you dont know what im ranting about...
i seriously dont know what im ranting off...
there is just too much question marks in my brain.

Arghh..............

Random

Recently I dont have much stuffs to blog about nor in the mood to blog.
Super depressed right now... another of my adult fish die yesterday
for no reason.... within 30 mins when i got home.
And it got to be my top favourite, the black big tail!!
Shit! When I though i can rest assured after all my fries are saved.....

Till then....

THE UPBRINGING OF OUR KIDS

Many time we have seen juvenile cases reported on newspaper

or someone near us would have complaint of their teenage kids

gone out of hands.

End up in police station for fights or so..

What really happen?

When the kids got into trouble, the parents will blame the school

the teachers or even the tutors.

For not teaching the kids manners or not keeping an eye on them.

Hello, how come parents did not ask themselves.

what happen to my children?

Are we responsible for such behaviour?

The school, teachers and tutor are not responsible for keeping

your kids out of trouble.

You are their parents, and they are your reponsiblities.

Why did i mentioned this topic today?

Saw something that make me rant about it.

Just the other day, as i was waiting for cab

I saw these group of six uncle and aunties crowding at the void deck.

Among them was a kid... hmm about 4-5 years.

That kid was very naughty.

He was playing with one of the uncle in a very rude manner.

screaming and shoving. But it seems so the adult is playing with

him in such manner.

At this point, I'll just watch.. i dont feel anything

Next, the kid push over a bicylcle

the toppled bicycle almost hit one of the uncle.

Everyone in the right mind would have scolded and disciplined him right?

They did not, instead they start applauding

cheering the boy on.

My eye open wide and my jaws drop..

WTF, they are encouraging the boy..

hence when the uncle actually picked the bike up.. the boy ran and toppled it again

This time it hit the uncle on the foot.

Again the rest started clapping and cheering the boy on.

The uncle was so mad, he try to grab the boy and smack him

before he did, the boy grab his arm and gave him a hard bite.

The uncle was yelling in pain and someone got to pulled the boy away.

The few aunties starting clapping and cheering and even giving the boy

the Thumb UP, telling him GOOD.

U can see the cheeky look on the boy face.

He was proud with what he have done and he is only 4 years old.

In another case which i have encountered.

Im used to tutor this 6 year old boy.

the whole day he would be at home with the maid Marie.

Parents would be working long hours

The boy would yell for Marie for any slightest thing.... water, pen, eraser.

even when the eraser is just few steps away from him.

after that, he would not say "Thank you"

I ask him why?

Why didnt you call her Auntie Marie, hw can you just yell for her name?

Why didnt you say 'thank you' each time Auntie Marie help you?

Why must you yelled everytime you need something, do you like me yelling at you??

Why can you just walk over and get your own eraser??

Should you say "Please" each time you need someone to help you?

He look at me wide eye and shrug his shoulder.

Must say thank you? Must call as Auntie Marie?

Must say 'please'??

His parents didnt tell him that......or correct him.

He told me, mommy and daddy did the same mah.

Marie told me, that is how thing are at home.

3 of them will take turn to yell for her..

no such things as 'PLEASE' and 'THANK YOU'

just because she is the MAID.

Is this how we s'poreans are teaching our kids now?

We, Sporean are so fucking proud of ourself especially when we are overseas.

We are so proud till we no longer know what is mutual respect and basic manners

But may I asked.. what are we proud of?

Our rude manners? Our cockiness? Our unruly behehaviour?

If 10, 15 years down the road.

Your so called precious children yelled at you, or even slap you back

Will you still cheer him on and give him the thumb Up?

THE EGG HAS HATCHED

Just 2 weeks ago, we are complaining that Nuff has got no ads..
and MsChorlor nuff's egg finally hatched.. she got $0.40

today i check.. my egg has hatch too!
I got $0.60 yeah dajie.. i got more than you.. blah :P

Although its slower than my google.. but better than nothing hor

Thanks Nuffnang.. keep the ads coming!

ITS RAINING MANGOES

This year, due to dry weather
all the mangoes trees are having a good harvest.
Been staying in Tampines for almost 3 years now
Its the 1st time that I notice the abundance of mangoes
hanging from the trees.

In fact, i've never know they are mango tress

the picture below is one of the mangoes trees
but consider to have a bad harvest in my opinion.



Just walk along the street to Tampines Mall.
You will see the whole street are 'decorated' with mangoes.

There is this particular tree, Emma pointed out
"Look at that its a Mango X'mas Tree"
with that its easy to imagine how it look like.
hasnt got a chance to take a shoot of that xmas tree thou

we been wondering what is going to happen to those mangoes
is it going to gone to waste?

But there is good news now.
NDP will be harvesting this mangoes for charity.
Isnt that nice? Read about it here.

on a side note:
these mango tress are planted on the road side
and i do notice some of their branches are not prun
hence its literally hanging mangoes above the road and traffic
what happen if the ripen mango fell off and hit a passing vehicle
cause a shock to the driver and resulting in a traffic accident?
hehe maybe i have think too much!

Irene was asking me why mangoes huh? How come not durians?
Gal ar.. you wan to risk getting hit by durians meh?!LOL..

THE PHENOMENAL LUO CHUN GE

This is the phenomenal Bao?
Its called sheng jian bao, i haven eaten this before..

picture taken on weekday before 7pm.


I been wanting to try but its always long queue..
there is once, i saw the queue was gone.. super HAPPY lor!
quickly went to the stall... dangz
there is a tag that say "SOLD OUT"

it was only 8pm on a sunday

Is it so NICE that its really sold out before 8pm??
Who has try this before?? Please comment here!!
I dont wan to queue and the bao taste aweful hor.

DOES SUSAN BOYLE NEED A MAKEOVER...?

Gosh, is Susan Boyle really really so famous and popular now?

Sony is offering her a contract even if she doesnt win the talent contest
She is being offered 1.4 million for starring in a RA film.
There has been much talks about her lately

Now I have even received email of contest about her her.
88DB is holding a contest with Subtle Senses.

Just answer a simple question 'YES' or 'NO' and you can win SPA voucher
like that also can ar...

To do publicity, any one who is famous also can be featured!



Next you probably see contest like

Does Susan boyle need requires body slimming and contour?
Does Susan Boyle need a new hair do...
Does Susan Boyle need fashionable clothings like....?
Does Susan Boyle need cosmetic enhancement like botox and facelifting??
Susan boyle only use microphone from us....
Do you wan to sing like Susan.. Join us..!

then maybe all the poster of the slimming centre will
become like this??


And all the advertisement we see on TV featured her only!

P/s: Sorry to Irene Ang and Ivy Lee for using their picture!
p/p/s: Sorry for the poor editing skills.. i have yet to learn photoshop!

LOANSHARK VISITING ME

Abit tired tonight.. been having sleepless night
Too tired to look for new blogging material
so i went to dig out pictures which i took before i started my blog

See loanshark masterpiece before??
Welcome to my house!

This happen somewhere in Nov 2007, one mth after my ROM
this loanshark so cheapo
only use a small can of paint to splash my door..
like tat also shiok meh?!
and use green paint.. not scary enough

This happen around 6am on a weekday.
I have to climb out of the window to take these pictures.. hehe


These wordings on the wall only appear 30 mins after the police left


KNN... see the mobile number and it say to call after 7pm?
What, loanshark only operate from 7pm to 7am is it?

the most bloody thing which im so certained
WAS
this loanshark was either non educated, cant even read numbers
or he was fucking stoned!

wake up your bloody fucking brain when you are working!
the block number, and unit number is not even mine!

we wasted 2.5 hrs cleaning up the mess.
Actually we thought to just leave the paint there in case this
loanshark make a mistake again.
but worry my dogs die from licking up the paint.

Oh yah, my KPO neighbours were so busy walking
pass my unit to see us clean up..and busy gossiping
about their new neighbour owing loan shark money
Still pretend to throw litter and ask me..
"Aiyo.. accidentally spilled the paint ar?"

Hehe yah lor.. next time i accidentally spill it at your door :)

Come to think of it.. the police at that time have
promised to come back to us in 2 months time.
But till now... almost 2 years liao.. also never.
Tell me about efficiency.. ~_^

THANKS FOR RUINING MY DAY -PART 2

Read about Part 1.

Oh Man..
char was fuming mad this morning and wow to get back at the cabby right?
Now super tired after a hard day of work.. infact i just got home
want to rest my eyes and fingers liao
How!!
want to go stomp to kick up a big fuss ley
but im LAZY!

Until now, at 10.20pm
no body from trans cab have yet to get back to me!

THANKS FOR RUINING MY DAY -PART 1

Dear Uncle,

Thank you so much for ruining my perfect Tuesday morning!
Another big THANK YOU for providing me with blogging material
when im having a major BLOG BLOCK!

This wonderful uncle is non other than the Taxi Driver from Trans Cab
who drove me to work this morning.

As usual when I board a cab, I would instructed the cabby to go via
PIE/KPE to my office. This is my usual prefered route as its the cheapest and
fastest way to go Cecil Street. It will always be range from $13.40 to $13.80 .

Okay, so i was sick and tired this morning that i actually kind of doze off
for a while. When I open my eye the next moment...
we are stuck in a Jam few lanes away from KPE exit.
Oh what happen.. why are we at the extreme right lane to CTE instead of left
lane to KPE?

Instantly, I ask him..
ME:Eh uncle, go by KPE mah.. why u take CTE?
Him: HUH, aiyo.... tsk!!

Then try to do a very lame and crappy stunt.. try to maneuver his vehicle to the
left into KPE exit but failed as i already said "We are in a jam, and slightly passed
the KPE exit"

Shit you driver.. Im haven got my driver license and i know that's impossible..
so please dont act..

Him: Tsk.. haiz.. cannot lah too late
Tsk tsk.. you should have tell me early just now.. you know... blah blah blah

simply cut him short by shooting him back... damn you still TSK me!

Me: Uncle, how EARLY you wan me to tell you?! Didnt I tell you PIE/KPE when
i first got on the cab? Not EARLY enough HUH?
And you know CTE is already more expensive, not to mentioned JAM!

That does shut him up ... as we jam (slow traffic) all the way to Cecil Street

There is one point i certainly do not understand. He may have not heard me 'KPE'
and he didnt ask... never bother at all
weird thing was he have seen a Jam forming on the lanes to CTE way before he reach
why did he choose to be on the extreme right lane and not go into KPE to avoid
the JAM? If i didnt wake up and point to him that.. he would have happily queuing up
in the traffic jam


In case, no body understand what im blahling about, i have attached a map
with my own illustrations. Its not exact but closed enough.

I was pissed already while in the cab... and i was intending to pay him only $13.80
shit lor, I have no exact change in my wallet .. there were only 50 dollar notes

When I reach my destination, the meter was at $15.20.
I pass him the $50 dollar bill and ask for receipt.. he was looking for change
So i asked him

Me: So how uncle, you going to charge me for $15?
Him: Yah lah, follow Meter mah, its $15.20 ley.. as he give me his innocent look
Me: Yah Meter say $15.20... but I told you to take KPE.. u opt for CTE
not my problem if fare is higher. My usual is $13+ only ley
Should you charge me $13++??
Him: Hmm no lah.. follow meter (as he point to meter again)
As he gaved back the change and receipt
You call the Tel number on the receipt lah
Me: Oh the tel number huh? To call in and complain lah is it?
Him: Yah Yah, you call and complaint lah
Me: Okay lah.. get off the cab

Oh Man!, Uncle is challenging me to complaint him ar..
Okay Uncle, you shall get what you wished for!

As per what uncle advise to call the tel. number in the receipt
so I did, called Trans Cab complaint Hotline (6555 6666) from 10.45am to 1.15pm
Icalled for like 8 times, line is always transfered, put on hold and then line busy.
Wah SUPERB! to think the complaint line is even HOTTER than the booking
line!

By the way, Uncle, thanks for the discount of $0.20 hor ..
and Im sure going to give you what you wished for..

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Finally manage to speak to someone, not through the complaint line but through the "lost and found" line.

I refused to hang up, and request to speak to a manager. As I was told there should be 5 officers manning the complaint line. Since morning till now, i can never get through... Is there complaint cases too over whelming or the officers are chatting on the line??! Its even busier than Singtel/Starhub line!

This particular helpful CS actually help me to note down my complaint and my particulars, as she is not from the complaint dept, she cant give me a definite answers. But based on estimation, someone from the investigation will contact me with 1 or 2 weeks time.

Oh, so it does take that LOONGGG.. so is that why the cabby challenged me?? As he is well aware, 1st Trans Cab complaint line is forever BUSY and 2nd, it takes that long to revert. So most probably he is going to get away with his rude attitude.

But I just cant let him get away...with this. If he have talk to me nicely or offer to waive off some charges or even apologise that he took the wrong route.. I can just forget about it.

Its after-all only $1.40 extra... I can well afford that

But why should i be taking this kind of shit from you when im the paying customer?!

Im the self-proclaimed TAXI QUEEN... you think i will let you earn our hard-earned money with such bad attitude??

SINGAPOREAN MEN ARE BOYS...

Last night we were having a discussion over ShuFen's post
on 'Chivalry is dead'

I think Chivalry is dying!

Recently I have been hearing and seeing too much
about Singaporean Men and their notorious deeds.

Im not saying all our SG men are unrefined
MAYBE there are still a handful of goody nice guys which i shall
perhaps label them as dinosaurs.. as they are going into extinction soon!!
RARE AND FEW...
gals, if you see any nice guy out there... please quickly grab!!!

The bad one.. hmm really ought to be shot
Guys or rather BOYS!!
Please reflect upon your own behaviour when you read the following.
If you are NOT guilty of the following .. GOOD, keep up the good behaviour
you belong to the 'Dino catergory' and should be damn proud of yourself!

If you are guilty of the following, partial or ALL......
then give yourself a good punch.. BOYS

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Senario #1

Sometime back, emma have a guys night out at a local club
get to know some sg guys through his colleague

when he came back... he was basically ranting %%$#@$ nonstop
He as a MAN was totally disgusted with the 2 assholes he met for the night.

These two assholes paid entry fee into the club
looking for FREE SEX + FREE DRINK

Ok.. free sex maybe i shall define that as "ONE NIGHT STAND"
perhaps that is why its free sex.. FREE for ALL!

But hello.. free drinks?? WTH!

The two little boys went round table to table
chatting up the ladies beside the motive for hooking up late night activity
he was asking for free drinks
He actually went right out and ask the ladies to buy them drinks!
OMG.... thick-skin jerks
Emma heard them asking.. he almost spit out the beer he was drinking.
to think they even have the guts to brat happily!

Arh.. so happy hor.. go clubbing only spend $15 bucks and
you get so much fun!!

p/s: dont come shoot me with -> your emma not s'porean meh?!
Yeah .. he is not!

p/p/s: perhaps i didnt mentioned... I have seen some asking for free ciggs!

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Senario #2

Shu Fen's good friend who is a guy have ask her out late at night
but somehow did not offer to walk her home..

yeah you can say its not a big deal.
but the big issue here is

Local men only bother to fulfill their gentlement duties
towards the girls they have interest in
which is sad to say....ONLY during the courtship period
if the girl reject his advances
that is... i think they dont even bother to hold the lift for you

hmm, why so calculative ar??
isnt gentlemen behaviour is a part of your life?
shouldnt all men behave as a gentlemen??

Maybe lah.. still boys... haven learn their manners yet..

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Senario # 3

This is a personal encounter... numerous time.

Seems like some guys are rather afraid they be taken advantage of
or maybe the ladies in my group are too MANLY!

When its time to pay the bills.. we see the following
A) Look at us when waiter hands over the bills
B) taking forever to retrieve their wallet from their Mega deep pocket
perhaps the wallet is lost in the pocket yea?!
C) took out only $20 when the bill is $80 for 4 pax
D) pretend not to notice the bill
(helo, we didnt say we wont pay you back.. why so scare?)

Most of the time, the ladies in my groups will swipe out their wallet
and cards to foot the bills instead.
Then there is a few occassion, the boys 'forgotten' to pay his own share
or if he is the one who pay.. he probably tell you how much to pay

hmm..dont you see we are giving you a chance
to present yourself as a MAN so we let you foot the bill
and pay you back later on?

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Senario #4

the boy asked his GF to pay him half of whatever he had paid for the day
such as lunch, dinner, movies, drinks etc

Ask the GF out for late night movie near his place
so he can save the transport home.
Poor GF got to take a cab back.. he say he pay..
but only give her $5, cause that is the maximum he can pay
The cab fare will be at least $20.
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Senario #5

Meet GF at a hotel for some hanky panky action
when its time to check out.. oops
forgot to bring wallet or not enough cash
Hooray!! GF foot the room charges yet again..

LOW CLASS JERK!

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Senario #6

GF bump into a crazy man in the supermarket
freak the shit out of her.. just when she need someone to protect her
boyfriend is now more concern in choosing his food
and nowhere to be found
When she finally found him and told him what happen.
He laughs!

The GF told me...
"Just when i need a MAN, i cant find one, because all i have is a BOYfriend!"

Oh no... when will the BOY grows into a MAN?
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Senario #7

when it time to get married.
both party started saving for the wedding and the house
MUST be 50% each
but the boy is acting like MCP(male chauvinist pig)
like he own the house, and he pay 100% for everything
and yeah right he own the wife-to be too
So wifey cannot NOT work, bring home the dough, do the housework,
cook for you , bear you some offsprings and listen to what you have to say!

Oh great!, why dont you marry your maid?!
Oh yes... maid cant bring home as much money as we do..i've forgotten.
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So are our local MEN really BOYS??
what do you think?
Comment here!

Note:
1)All above senarios are true life accounts.. not fictional
(please do not go into the state of self-denial)
2) Once again, Im not pointing fingers at all the SG men only the majority ^_~
(oh where does the good ones go?!)

A SMOKER AND A DRINKER

Basically this best describe what me and emma are
A smoker and a drinker
I smoke .. don't drink and he drink.. don't smoke
But there is something which i have been dwelling for a while
hmm.. 'not a while' actually since its like almost five years already.

He drinks and Im fine with that BUT when I smoke.. he is not
ok with that although he still insist now that he is not UNhappy
about the fact I smoked

When i smoke infront of him.. he frowns
walks away when i talked to him or even ask me
"why are you smoking again? Why must smoke?"

Okay lor.. since then I have never smoke infront of him again
caused Ii just cant be bothered to answer questions like this
I smoked behind his back.. wahaha!

Back to the point
Im a habitual smoker turn social smoker
as i realised i have been throwing ciggies away into the bin when
i cant finish it in time.. and they turn yucky
and its not logical smoking myself to death just to save some
ciggies monies 'unfortunately' everyone i know is a non-smoker,
there isnt anyone to share

Now i do not have the urge to smoke every single hour
but I do smoke when i feel like it.
Dont ask me why ok.. cause the theory is same
as 'I blog whatever crap I like'

just last night on ur way home
somehow this topic just started out of nowhere.. cant remember why
its not the 1st and finally this time i think Emma got it nw

He is forever telling me.. smoking is no good and drinking is ok!

I hate that when someone always tells me that
because its so unfair to judge others based on your own standard.
I seriously consider all these theory as C.R.A.P.

Because a person like to drink, so drinking alcohol is consider acceptable.
Because a person smokes and smoking is consider acceptable
Because a person gambles, so gambling is consider acceptable
Because a person lies, so lying is consider acceptable
and so the list goes go.

But what happens when a person smokes
so he embrace all smokers and condemn all drinkers?

is this right?

NO.. in my point of view
because its my like and habit so its my choice
and i respect other's choice in life and wont condemn or even say it wrong
just because it differs from mine.
I hope others will respect me for that too.
Dont imposed your F opinions on my life!

Many years ago, a female friend told me
"Aiyah you know u look Fugly when you smoke, cant you quit?"
My reply to her (who is a clubber / drinker)
"Nope, so what if i look Fugly... don't you look the same
when you are drunk and wasted in your own puke on the
bathroom floor"

That did shut her up then...

Anyway this is the conversation last night
E:Are you still smoking now?
C: Yeah.. sometimes
E:Is it? How come I never know?
C: Why must i tell you since i know what the reaction gonna be?
E: Whats my reaction?
C: You show me a CB face! (fucked up face)
E: Oh.. I never lah but why must smoke...
C: Why u can drink.. and i cant smoke
and i dont remember asking you that whenever you drinks.. also
never show you the CB face ok
E:Different mah... smoking and drinking is very different
Smoking is unhealthy
C: Oh really.. how different? I got lung cancer and you get Liver cancer
Same .. also cancer mah. Both also bad habits..
E: But I never drink everyday what
C: Yah, I also never smoke everyday..
E: But drinking is different.. you know you enjoy and relax
C: No i dont.. I'll relax by smoking
E: Smoking is expensive now ley.. price is increasing
C: Yah.. and I also dont find Chivas selling for 12 bucks per bottle lor.
Somemore hor, you collecting liquor at home.. I dont even collect Ciggs
E: Liqour bottle chio mah.. you go where find chio ciggs box
C: Have, at DFS lah.. Limited Edition davidoff ok
So back to the point lah
Why must you drink? Drink for what?
E: Eh...... *speechless*
C: So should i give you the CB face whenever you drink with
your friends huh?? and ask you the same .. WHY must you drink??!
E:.......................
C: Why do you say drinking is good just cause you are doing it?
If you are a smoker, would you still ask me why i smoke?
E: hmm.. ok lah, i understand what you saying lor nw
Im okay with you smoking as long as you are not becoming a heavy smoker
social smoker ok?
C: Ok.. dealz

Hahaha.. Char won the debate. Now I can smoke in MY OWN HOUSE!

Actually, I do mind when someone imposed their opinions on my life
just like my older sis did on the topic on money

She is okay with spending $3k on a facial package but not me spending $1k on a bag

Im not blaming them for that and i do know they mean well

In fact, in these whole... alot of people are like this.

I'll just hope people can understand that there are many choices in life
and each individual have their own preferences and choice.
repect me for what I am although my choice will be different
from yours, thats why we are individuals isnt it?

p/s: maybe after reading this you wan to scold me as i condemn
dog eaters. Read carefully.. I do not condemn dog eaters..
but please kill & eat animals in a humane and civilised manner.

IM AN IT IDIOT

Its either an IT moroon or Im a lazy person!
I have signed up for a wordpress account since early this year
and i have given up using it as I find it Char's unfriendly

So i have been sticking to blogger since then
until i have started blogging serious since 2nd April
I realise I need quite a number of tools to help me in blogging
and i think having searching through wordpress is a good choice.

Today I decided to give my wordpress account another chance
hahaha.. sad to say
Im lost.. when im at the dashboard.
Didnt know what to do and i hate all the ugly default blog template
(yes im shallow.. who wants a ugly blog?!)
just like Im super lost when i log into my facebook account
I hate seeing lots of text on the screen.. too overwhelming
Not like blogger.. idiot-proof and Char's friendly

I really need time to figure it out..
Hope i can get it settled in 3 days
so embarrassed to say Im a engineering student from Temasek Poly
i wonder how i have passed and got the diploma back then
and the poor sheet of cert became a drawer base
for my bag so it wouldnt get dirty for the past 5 years
before its now somewhere hmmm.. in the storeroom

Even Nuff Innit post took me 4 days
until Shufen taught me how.. LOL
tat shows how 'innocent' I am!

If wordpress account managed to win me over..
Soon there will be a shifting to do..
provided their downloading speed is acceptable.
i have given up trying to post my 2nd post there
as the loading is super sloooow...
I've slammed my poor mousie until it nearly fell apart

God bless me that i can manipulate my wordpress account
in the next 3 days!