My first-ever blog on ........ CURSE of 0909

I'm well-known for my sense (no-sense) of direction and the same goes to writing and composition. But today I shall start my first "Compo" not on myself but on Ms Gwennie and the Curse.
(God, please bless me.. hope i can finish this in a day!)

Curse of 0909 aka Curse of 9th Sept. What is so special about 9th Sept?! - Well its the most celebrated, most-dread and most remembered cursed day known to the people in my little circle. Uh-uh wrong guess, it not my birthday or wedding anniversary!

It's our gwennie's birthday. Lucky gwen or should I say poor gwen, your birthday is always the "most happening" day of the year since yr 2005 till when maybe yr 2XXX...????

Your dramatic birthday events
(p/s, for more indepth details , refer to Gwennie's blog)

2005: Unexpectedly due to a messy and confusing BGR situation, our blurred Ms A confused, concussed and drunk created a embrassing moment for Ms G. Not her fault that she was no good with matching names to faces after a few drinks, but it drive Ms G hopping mad with that incident. Cant remember the mini-confrontation that follows thou but after some slamming and crying, Ms A left and the rest of us proceed to the gals night out. Althought there is some *hiccups* the plan still went as usual.
That year is the start of TROUBLE

2006: Haha, this time celebration was held at the same venue again as the previous year. 1 week before the Big day -0909, Moi, Ms E ,Ms A and also Gwen were praying hard nothing dramatic happen this year. We all attended with a big smilling face, but still praying hard deep down in our hearts. Nothing much happen through-out the whole party to gwen's delight. All was peaceful and quiet until Ms E, Ms A and Moi reach home. Three of us received the same sms (need not attend her wedding if busy) from Ms G.........apparently she was unhappy and that she was left out of Ms E's maritial counselling session during the evening and hence forwarded such a harsh sms to us and the many weird things that follows after the outrage.

Called it Jealousy, Childish , Insensitivity, Brainless, Egoistic or Unreasonable- this behavious from Ms G was totally unacceptable and unforgiven. Ms A and I decided to isolated ourselves from her since then even her wedding.

2006 was even bigger TROUBLE then 2005. Since 10th September 2006, Gwen's world was split into two namely the Group A and B.

2007: 2007 was a good year for birthdays. Trouble was absence this time, while Gwen had a difficulty and busy time planning her birthday celebrationS. Celebrated her birthdays twice this year just for the sake of keeping Group A and Group B away from each other. All's well that end well, but only for that month at the very least, Gwen was thankful no fighting for the day.

Oct 07 was my ROM, something major happen after my "honeymoon". My new wedding life was not a sweet world of two but six. ( includ my two poochies, Ms E and her "good" friend). Many months later due to house rules incompatibility , mis-understanding arises and this strain the relationship between me and Ms E. This incident split Group A up further into smaller groups.

Creepy isnt it, all the weird things that follows after every 0909 celebration!

2008: This year, I was absent from the celebration... caused I was the OUTCAST for the year. Nah, not yet! Sorry I couldnt attend for some reasons. Like what Gwen had said, as we grow older hope some issues could be buried and be forgotten. But I soon realised otherwise, to be precise, as Gwen grows older, the candles on her cakes increase in number as her age, so does the number of celebrations held for her birthday and maybe more gifts? (we used to share 1 gift) . This year, Gwen celebrated thrice intended for Group A ( A-1 & A-2) and Group B.

2008 - no dramatic events but hope the trouble ends here. If not Gwen might have to hold 5, 6 or 7 celebrations next year (choy!Touchwood!) Gwen, pls keep your fingers cross....

Looking back, our relationship with the other five gals ( A, E, G, R & L) is truly complicating, messy and fragile. Why is that so, I really do not know. But for obvious reason, I was involved in all the brawls that started from 2005, so maybe your curse is ME??? LoL, coincidently I was absent for 2008 and nothing happen... YET! Please do not outcast me but you may strike me off your guest list for 2009 or better yet, no more celebration?!! (Im just kidding, no offense k.)

As for your birthday wish, point noted and hope it comes true! But Ms G, Ms A and me is a BIG mis-match, while i was hoping things will turn out fine 1 day for Ms E and me. Do not know when but lets have faith and patience.